April 21, 2005

这个定格,我们互相成为彼此的风景
Owen也是善于思考生活的动物,并且常常会突然之间希望“想明白”一些活着的为什么和怎么样, 突然之间想知道“怎么样才能简单的生活,实现一个明了的生活状态?”。“简单生活”也是我所追求向往的一种生活,这也是为什么这个blog叫作slim is beautiful. slim就是干瘦简练,beautiful就是美,我想slim的生活才是美的。而美,完美,也许可以大言不惭地断言,是活着的终极意义。
除了好好读读owen的这篇文章,当然还有经典的另一篇文章,这片文章的观点跟Owen的应该是一致的,我想Owen肯定读过此文。我也希望有规律的,正直的,上进的,亢奋的,光明的,紧张的,高效的,收获的生活。我的大部分时间也是用在这个上面。不过除此之外,我也会愿意逃离它,去出格,去闯祸,去犯错,去疯狂。我的两位弟弟在这一点上不如我,我想对你们说邓小平先生说过的话“胆子要再大一点,步子迈得更阔一点”。关于这一点,我很喜欢hugh的这段描述:
In New York, you always think that if you try harder, work longer hours, make more money, spend more time at the gym, put more effort into networking, read more books, go to bed earlier, drink less booze, avoid negative people, be less shallow about the whole sex thing, be more supportive to your close friends, eat more vegetables and stop smoking so many damn cigarettes, you will eventually be able pull off that great Miracle Of Miracles i.e. you’ll finally, finally, finally be able to live in Manhattan while simultaneously leading a healthy, productive, emotionally-balanced life.
Ha.
(PS: I no longer live in New York, obviously)